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Chapter 12 · Verse 18
🪈 Krishna speaks
Pichwai-style painting of a boy sitting peacefully on the cricket boundary after a match, equal toward friend and opponent, illustrating the devotee who is the same in honour and dishonour.

समः शत्रौ च मित्रे च तथा मानापमानयोः। शीतोष्णसुखदुःखेषु समः सङ्गविवर्जितः॥

samaḥ śatrau ca mitre ca tathā mānāpamānayoḥ | śītoṣṇasukhaduḥkheṣu samaḥ saṅgavivarjitaḥ ||

Word by Word 9 words
समः
sama equal, even

equal, balanced, the same toward all

शत्रौ
śatru enemy, foe

toward an enemy

ca and

and

मित्रे
mitra friend

toward a friend

तथा
tathā so, likewise

likewise, in the same way

मानापमानयोः
māna honour, respect apamāna dishonour, insult

in honour and in dishonour

शीतोष्ण
śīta cold uṣṇa hot

cold and hot

सुखदुःखेषु
sukha pleasure, happiness duḥkha pain, sorrow

in pleasure and in pain

सङ्गविवर्जितः
saṅga attachment vi apart, away varjita abandoned

free from attachment

says: The devotee who is equal toward both enemy and friend, the same in honour and dishonour, in cold and heat, in pleasure and pain, who is free from all attachment — such a person is dear to Me.

कथा

The Water Bottle on the Boundary

An original story

The final ball had been bowled twenty minutes ago, but Rohan was still sitting on the boundary rope. The grass was damp under his cricket whites. Behind him, the pavilion buzzed with voices — his teammates talking too loudly, the way people do when they are pretending a loss does not hurt.

It hurt. Rohan had scored thirty-seven runs, his best in a final, but it was not enough. The other school's total was eleven runs higher, and those eleven runs felt like a wall he had run into face-first. He peeled off his batting gloves and set them on the grass beside him. His palms were red and creased from gripping the bat.

Footsteps on the grass. Rohan looked up.

It was Dhruv — the other team's captain. Tall, still in his pads, helmet tucked under one arm. He had scored the winning boundary, a clean drive through extra cover that Rohan had watched from the non-striker's end, unable to do anything but hear the ball crack against the fence.

Dhruv did not say "good game." He did not say "hard luck." He just sat down on the boundary rope beside Rohan, close enough that their shoulders almost touched, and held out a water bottle.

Rohan took it. The water was warm — it had been sitting in the sun all afternoon — but it felt good going down. He drank half and handed it back. Dhruv drank the rest.

They sat there, saying nothing. The groundskeeper had started rolling the pitch in the distance, the heavy roller leaving dark lines on the grass. A mynah bird landed on the stumps and pecked at something between the bails. The shadows of the sightscreen stretched long across the outfield.

"Your cover drive off the spinner," Dhruv said after a while. "The one in the fourteenth over. That was the best shot I saw all day."

Rohan looked at him. "You won."

"I know." Dhruv paused. "But that doesn't change the shot."

From the pavilion, Rohan's coach watched the two boys sitting together on the boundary, the losing captain and the winning one, sharing water and silence. He leaned against the doorframe and thought: those two understand something that most adults spend a lifetime missing. The game ends. The score fades. The trophy gathers dust on a shelf somewhere. But the way you treat the person sitting next to you — that is the part that lasts.

says: be equal toward friend and foe, in honour and dishonour, in victory and defeat. Dhruv did not sit with Rohan to be kind. He sat because, in that moment, there was no winner and no loser — just two boys who loved cricket, and a water bottle with enough for both.

चिन्तनम्

Think of a time you lost at something — a game, a competition, a test. Who was with you afterward, and what did they do? Did it change how the loss felt?