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Chapter 11 · Verse 44
🏹 Arjuna speaks
Illustration for Chapter 11, Verse 44

तस्मात्प्रणम्य प्रणिधाय कायं प्रसादये त्वामहमीशमीड्यम्। पितेव पुत्रस्य सखेव सख्युः प्रियः प्रियायार्हसि देव सोढुम्॥

tasmātpraṇamya praṇidhāya kāyaṁ prasādaye tvāmahamīśamīḍyam | piteva putrasya sakheva sakhyuḥ priyaḥ priyāyārhasi deva soḍhum ||

Word by Word 19 words
तस्मात्
tad that tas from

therefore, for that reason

प्रणम्य
pra forth nam to bow

having bowed down

प्रणिधाय
pra forth ni down dhā to place

having laid down, prostrating

कायम्
kāya body

the body

प्रसादये
pra forth sad to be gracious, to please

I beg your grace, I seek to please you

त्वाम्
tvad you

you

अहम्
aham I

I

ईशम्
īś to rule, to be lord

the Lord, the ruler

ईड्यम्
īḍ to praise, to adore

the adorable one, worthy of praise

पिता
pitṛ father

father

इव
iva like, as

like, as

पुत्रस्य
putra son

of a son

सखा
sakhi friend

friend

सख्युः
sakhi friend

of a friend

प्रियः
prī to love, dear

a lover, one who is dear

प्रियायाः
prī to love, beloved

of the beloved

अर्हसि
arh to be worthy, to be able

you ought, you are able

देव
div to shine, god

O God, O shining one

सोढुम्
sah to bear, to endure

to bear, to forgive, to put up with

says: so, bowing low and laying my whole body down before you, I beg for your grace, O Lord most worthy of praise. Please forgive me — bear with me the way a father bears with his son, a friend with his friend, a lover with the one he loves. Be patient and kind with me, O God.

कथा

The Three Ways of Forgiving

An original story

could no longer stand. He sank to his knees on the floor of the chariot and then went further still, laying himself flat, his forehead touching the boards, his arms stretched out before the blazing form.

He had remembered, with a hot rush of shame, all the careless ways he had treated over the years — calling out "Hey, Krishna!" across a noisy feast, teasing him, slapping his shoulder, never once guessing that his easy companion was the Lord of all the worlds.

So now he asked for forgiveness. And because he loved in many ways at once, he asked for it in three.

"Forgive me as a father forgives his son," he said, his cheek against the floor. "A small boy spills the milk, breaks the pot, says foolish things, and the father does not stop loving him. He only smiles and wipes the mess and lifts the child back up. Be that father to me."

He drew a shaking breath.

"Forgive me as a friend forgives his friend. Friends quarrel and make up, forget each other's birthdays, say sharp words and then laugh them away. A true friend keeps no list of wrongs. Be that friend to me — the way you always have been, before I knew who you were."

Then his voice grew very soft.

"And forgive me as the one who loves forgives the beloved — the gentlest forgiveness of all, the kind that does not even need to be asked for, that is given before the sorry is finished. Bear with me, O God. Put up with me. Be patient with your foolish, frightened ."

The great form did not strike him down. It only blazed on, vast and steady, and somewhere in all those countless faces, felt the one he knew best was already smiling.

चिन्तनम्

When you do something wrong, who forgives you most easily — a parent, a friend, or someone who loves you? What makes their forgiveness feel different?