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Chapter 6 · Verse 9
🪈 Krishna speaks
Illustration for Chapter 6, Verse 9

सुहृन्मित्रार्युदासीनमध्यस्थद्वेष्यबन्धुषु। साधुष्वपि च पापेषु समबुद्धिर्विशिष्यते॥

suhṛnmitrāryudāsīnamadhyasthadveṣyabandhuṣu | sādhuṣvapi ca pāpeṣu samabuddhirviśiṣyate ||

Word by Word 13 words
सुहृत्
su good hṛd heart

a well-wisher, a good-hearted one

मित्र
mitra friend

a friend

अरि
ari enemy

an enemy, a foe

उदासीन
ud up, apart ās to sit

a neutral one, one who takes no side

मध्यस्थ
madhya middle sthā to stand

a mediator, one who stands in the middle

द्वेष्य
dviṣ to hate

one who is disliked, an object of dislike

बन्धुषु
bandh to bind, to befriend

among kinsmen, relatives

साधुषु
sādh to be good, to accomplish

among the good, the virtuous, the saints

अपि
api even, also

even, also

ca and

and

पापेषु
pāpa sin, wrong

among the sinful, the wrongdoers

समबुद्धिः
sama equal, even budh to know, to be aware

one of even-minded understanding, equal vision

विशिष्यते
vi specially śiṣ to be distinguished, to excel

stands out as the best, excels

says the very highest person is the one who can look with the same calm, equal eye on everyone — a dear well-wisher and a friend, an enemy and a stranger, a person who hates them and a relative, the saintly and the sinful alike. Such a person does not split the world into "the people I love" and "the people I can't stand." They see the same deep Self shining in everyone.

कथा

Vasishtha's Equal Eye

From the puranas

The great sage Vasishtha sat one morning outside his hermitage as his students gathered around him for the day's lesson. The forest was loud with birdsong, and the cattle lowed softly in the meadow beyond.

Down the path came his devoted disciples — boys and young men who loved him, who brought him fruit and firewood and hung on his every word. Vasishtha greeted them with a quiet, kind smile and a steady, welcoming gaze.

Then, a little later, another figure appeared at the edge of the clearing. The students stiffened. It was Vishvamitra — the fierce sage who had once been Vasishtha's bitter rival, who in the old days had wronged Vasishtha deeply, who had wished him harm and brought him grief. The young students glanced anxiously at their teacher, expecting his face to harden, expecting cold words or a turned shoulder.

But Vasishtha rose and greeted Vishvamitra with the very same quiet smile and the very same steady, welcoming gaze he had given his most loving disciple. No flicker of old anger crossed his face. No coldness. No false sweetness either — just the same calm warmth, exactly as if a friend had arrived.

When Vishvamitra had gone on his way, the boldest of the students could not hold his question.

"Master," he burst out, "that man once tried to ruin you! How can you look at him just as gently as you look at us, who love you? Does it not anger you even a little?"

Vasishtha set down the cup he was holding and looked around at all their young faces.

"When I look at any of you," he said, "what do I see? I see the one bright Self, the same in every heart. It shines in the student who loves me, and it shines no less in the man who once hated me. The love and the hatred are like weather passing over the sky — clouds one day, sun the next. But the sky itself does not change, and neither does the Self behind every face. The one who can keep his eye on that — friend or foe, saint or sinner, all the same — he has climbed the highest of all. Why would I let an old quarrel blind me to the same light I love in you?"

The students were silent, and the forest sang on around them.

चिन्तनम्

It is easy to be kind to people we like. What do you think it would take to be just as calm and fair toward someone who has been unkind to you?